K Is a Good Person Generally

K is really a good person. I definitely believe that he didn’t do anything to my daughter and me.

1. He have been a caring father since my daughter was born, always enjoying and be patient with the story reading, the chess game playing, the bike riding, the swim club training, the homework helping, the delicious meals cooking, etc. When my daughter was sick and couldn’t fall asleep due to the uncomfortable stuffy nose or coughing, K usually would hold her in his arms and sit on the bed through the night so that the stuffy nose will feel better. Everybody would say that he would be a very good father

2. He has been a good husband. He took care of all the financial management and all the household chores ( I do chores too) He never complained about the works and efforts and time he put for the family. He just kept doing it without even thinking that all of the things he have done needed to be praised or recognized by the familymembers, because he thought it’s just a matter of the responsibilities to do as a father or a husband.

A. He earned the money, He paid the bills, he managed the retirement plans, he put the new credit card in my hand, telling me from now on you can use this card, He would let me write a $2000 check to my mom even though during the period of “no income from me for many years as a stay home mom”, which is especially not “every hub can do it”. And the best part was he made me feeling no pressure or uncomfortable.
B. He cooked, he enjoyed cooking the meals with me together, he enjoyed watching some TV series with me even though he didn’t enjoy those TV series themselves sometimes, he just wanted to be with me, sitting on the same sofa, doing the same hobby together.
C. He blow dried my hair for me when he thought it was not very healthy to sleep over the wet hair at night .
D. He cut my nails for me whenever he saw me doing it as long as he had time, because he enjoyed doing these kinds of things for me.
E. He took care of my car’s maintenance for me, all I needed to do was to drive.
3. He has been a good buddy too. He helped his friends in a lot of ways, driving them around to places when they didn’t have a car, teaching them how to drive and to get the driver’s license, inviting single friends to our places during the weekends, especially during the holiday season so that they wouldn’t feel “home sick”, getting school information for the friends in China when they needed to apply for the American schools, helping with the letters to the professors, paying application fees for them, etc. He is a very considerate person who would think of someone else’s situation, definitely a “put himself into other people’s shoes” kind of person, and definitely an appreciative person for the help, never took things for granted He usually would not break the bond with his friends under certain agreement. He usually keeps his promise and loyal unless there was a misunderstanding between 2 people or the other person betrayed him first through the underneath tricks.

4. He has been well liked by his friends too, because of his unique mannerism and his consideration for others and his general quality or traits. When it comes to the degree of “being well liked by people or not”, I have a little personal theory, “woman’s man or men’s man”, just want to share it with you here:

You see, usually there are two types of men in terms of being liked more by women or more by men.
Type One man usually was more liked by women, but hated by men because of the jealoucy from other men, somebody does easily get jealous from other people sometimes. Type One man usually would win women’s heart more by “their crush, good looking, and love” quality”. It was a very good quality though, not everybody can have such qualities.
Type Two man usually was liked by both women and men, even though other men did see his talents, but they turned to admire him instead of hating him. Type two man usually would win women’s support not by love, but by respect and talent. In my opinion, I think K belongs to Type Two person-Men’s man.

5. He is a very smart and well educated and knowledgable person in many areas.And the best part was he never brag his education as a psychology Ph. D and a computer science master graduates in top 5 school in this country, he never bragged about his knowledges in many areas. But you can just feel it when you talked with him. After getting famous, although he seldom had the mood to read anymore except for some sports stuff, his accumulated knowledge base was still there, people who talk to him can just feel it. Also, the other best quality about him was he never felt jealous about other people’s “good qulities”. In this world, there were always people who are smarter, funnier, more handsome, more charming, better, somebody couldn’t handle this very well by jealous, but k never felt this way, he usually would accept it and improve himself. By the way, he usually wouldn’t put himself in the “comparing situation” like this. He is humble, good at jokes and humors, well liked by both men and women, etc. although he is a good leader material, especially among the Chinese community, not only from the point view of his smart brain, but also from the point view of his “general traits as a man I mentioned from the above”, he had been playing to be the “support guy or the idea guy” when it came to the point that they all wanted to be the big boss, but the other particular one was more ambicious, and more “sneaky and not kind type”, he would sacrifice his own interests to support, that was probably why when it came to the point of the assignment of certain role playing, he agreed with the biased Daddy and didn’t fight much to play the bad guy when of course, everybody wanted to play the good guy. It was just a concept to show the idea of an even more talented person who was willing to be the support guy without thinking to surpress the one he supported unless the big boss wanted to “
Kill the donkey after using him”